What happens when we don’t understand someone? Don’t think. Give your initial response. By saying “don’t think” you likely did and came up with the “appropriate response” that we all want to give. If the person you don’t understand is important to you, you attempt to uncover what is mysterious or confusing. You ask questions of the other person, probe a little and search for that something they share that creates an “Ah-ha” for you. …
